Being in your mid-30s with mounting debt and no safety net can feel like you’re stuck in financial quicksand.
If you’re living paycheck to paycheck, carrying $11,000 in debt and bringing in $3,800 a month — $3,000 from your main job and another $800 from side gigs — it can seem impossible to get ahead or build wealth.
But the truth is, you’re not alone, and recovery is possible.
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According to Experian, the average non-mortgage debt balance in the U.S. was $27,976 as of late 2024. While your $11,000 debt may feel like a giant obstacle — you can conquer it with a clear strategy.
Here are some steps you can take on the march toward financial freedom.
Build a budget and emergency fund
Build a budget that aligns with your financial reality. Even with an income of $3,800 a month, you can prepare a budget that supports your goals without making life miserable.
Try the 50/30/20 rule as a starting point:
- 50% of income goes to needs (housing, utilities and groceries)
- 30% to wants (entertainment, dining out and non-essentials)
- 20% to debt repayment and savings
In this case, $3,800/month breaks down to:
- $1,900 for needs
- $1,140 for wants
- $760 for savings or debt payoff
Depending on your area’s cost of living, you may want to adjust accordingly.
If debt is your most significant stressor, temporarily allocating income from the “wants” category to savings or debt payments could help you eliminate your balance faster. You may also want to consider establishing a modest emergency fund of, say, $1,000, before tackling your debt head-on. This can provide you with a financial cushion in case of an unplanned expense that might push you further into debt.
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Tackle your debt — and don’t let it linger
Not all debt is created equal, but credit card debt in particular comes with a high interest rate. That might motivate you to get rid of it faster over other types of debt with low interest rates. Either way, the goal is to be debt-free, and if you’re juggling multiple types of debt, there are different ways to get there:
- Avalanche method: Focus on paying off debts with the highest interest rates and make minimum payments on other debts.
- Snowball method: Start with your smallest debt to keep moving on up to build momentum.
- Debt consolidation: If you have multiple credit card balances, consolidate them with a new loan or line of credit. This strategy can simplify payments and may require closing the original accounts.
Paying off debt takes time but every small step counts. Even putting just an extra few hundred dollars each month toward your balance can reduce your payoff period and save you loads in interest.
Increasing savings and income
If you’re working side hustles that earn you $800 per month, on top of your regular job, you might already be feeling stretched thin.
At the very least, once your debt is paid off, you have more room to start saving. It’s a good time to boost that emergency fund — experts recommend stashing away three to six months’ worth of expenses — and start putting money away for your retirement.
Take this moment to reflect on your accomplishments, and then ask yourself, what can you do moving forward? Does the budget need adjusting? Is this a good opportunity to look for better-paying work?
You’ve taken a step forward with your finances already, and you can do it again.
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This article provides information only and should not be construed as advice. It is provided without warranty of any kind.
