Johi called into the The Ramsey Show from Cincinnati, reeling from a week in which her boyfriend of 14 years deserted her — right after she discovered she was pregnant with their second child.
“He was just not ready to take on that responsibility, so he left,” she said.
They already have a 12-year-old child together.
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“I feel like I’m too old to be having these problems,” Johi, 32, confessed.
While she deals with the emotional fallout of her breakup and the prospect of being a single mom, Johi sought Dave Ramsey’s advice on her next steps financially.
The good news is that she’s been using the debt snowball method to get her finances in order and only has one debt left: a $14,000 car loan.
She was ready to “attack it” and pay $1,600 a month “to wipe it out by the end of this year.” But with a baby coming, she doesn’t know if that’s the best plan — especially now that she finds herself in the position of being a single mom.
“Now I’m just confused on where to go from here,” she said.
Preparing financially for a new baby
After taxes, Johi makes about $4,500 a month, though a few months ago she started taking on side hustles so she now brings in about $5,500 a month. She’s not sure that’s sustainable as her pregnancy progresses.
Normally Ramsey recommends paying off debts first. But with a baby on the way, he says to “stop your debt snowball and pile up cash” for a baby budget.
“I want you to get the biggest possible pile of cash you can get between now and baby,” he told Johi. “Treat it like you’re paying off debt,”
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With her side hustle, she could save about $3,000 a month for over five months. She may need to slow down her side hustle as she nears her delivery date, but could save $15,000.
Fortunately, Johi has health insurance, though she’ll need to contact her provider to find out what her out-of-pocket costs will be for obstetric appointments, labor and delivery.
Generally for someone with health insurance, those add up to $2,854 — including your health insurance deductible, copayments and coinsurance — according to the Peterson-KFF Health System Tracker..
If Johi didn’t have health insurance, she’d be looking at $18,865 in out-of-pocket costs.
Low-income single moms without health insurance can apply for Medicaid or CHIP (Children’s Health Insurance Program) to see if they’re eligible for free or low-cost health coverage. They may also qualify for certain subsidies or tax credits.
What to do once baby has arrived
If Johi does as Dave Ramsey advises, she could have up to $20,000 saved when she comes home with her new baby. That gives her options.
Ramsey told her that if she doesn’t have other expenses, she could write a check for $14,000 and pay off her car.
“You don’t really lose any ground on your get-out-of-debt plan,” he said.
From there, she can restart her financial goals. Ramsey’s baby steps include building out an emergency fund, paying off all debt (except your mortgage) using the debt snowball method and investing 15% of your household income for retirement, among other things.
Johi should also consider contacting her state’s child support agency, which is responsible for child support enforcement. USA.gov offers resources to help.
Child support could help Johi supplement her income if she’s unable to continue her side hustle in the latter part of her pregnancy or after she gives birth. And it holds her deadbeat partner accountable, Ramsey added.
“Most states have a law that if you make a baby, you get to help pay for it,” he said.
The level of child support depends on where you live, according to Custody X Change. The national average is $721 a month but can range from $402 to $1,187 a month.
Judges can adjust the levels based on evidence, and sometimes parents agree on the amount of child support a partner will pay.
This article provides information only and should not be construed as advice. It is provided without warranty of any kind.
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