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  • ‘You’re imposing this on her’: Dave Ramsey gives Florida man a reality check — Ramsey says his struggles with his spendy wife aren’t really about money (plus what’s missing from their plan)

    ‘You’re imposing this on her’: Dave Ramsey gives Florida man a reality check — Ramsey says his struggles with his spendy wife aren’t really about money (plus what’s missing from their plan)

    It’s not uncommon for a marriage to experience financial issues, but sometimes the money problems are just the tip of the iceberg.

    Dave Ramsey recently explained this to a Florida man, Hayden, who called in to the financial guru’s show. Hayden and his wife are deeply in debt, with a US$19,300 balance on their credit cards and US$64,000 in car loans, including a US$37,000 loan for a new Tesla. The two have created a budget to navigate their financial woes, but Hayden’s wife feels the couple hasn’t budgeted for one important part of life: fun.

    Hayden shared that in spite of their lavish spending, the couple is struggling to afford things like attending baby showers and dining out with friends. Hayden’s wife, who is pregnant with their second child, has to clear her spending with him, asking for US$50 to use for thesee types of activities, which Hayden routinely denies.

    “My wife started to feel very controlled,” Hayden admitted.

    As Hayden continued to explain the situation, the conversation quickly shifted from “how do I get my wife on board?” to “how can we make budgeting decisions as a couple?” That’s when Ramsey’s advice veered away from discussing finances.

    ‘Ultimately, you two probably need marriage counselling’

    Ramsey and co-host Jade Warshaw were visibly shocked when Hayden outlined the couple’s debts, as well as the issues Hayden’s wife has with their budget. “You’re imposing this on her, and she’s not got any adult ownership in the sacrifice that needs to occur for you all to swim.”

    Since Hayden and his wife don’t appear to be on the same page with their financial goals, Ramsey suggested another remedy that might help the couple get to the bottom of their issues.

    “Ultimately, you two probably need marriage counselling,” said Ramsey. “She’s not involved in this at all, emotionally, and so you’ve become her parent and she doesn’t like it when you tell her ‘no.’ And you’re getting tired of being the parent.”

    Warshaw also pushed for the couple to attend counseling, noting that for most new parents, the arrival of a child tends to change their relationship with money. If Hayden’s wife still has a desire to spend recklessly, there is likely an underlying factor leading to this behavior.

    “My guess is there’s something behind this,” said Warshaw. “You go to counseling, you’re going to figure out what that is, because there is something stopping her from wanting to go all in on this.”

    While Ramsey was sympathetic to Hayden’s potential marital issues, he refused to let Hayden off the hook for the terrible financial decisions he and his wife have made. For example, buying a brand new Tesla when Hayden and his wife were already drowning in debt.

    “It’s asinine, and you knew it when you did it,” said Ramsey. “But you went along with it, trying to make someone happy by buying them stuff. And it doesn’t work.”

    Making money decisions as a couple

    Budgeting as a couple should be a joint activity that not only takes into account what’s possible today, but also what’s possible for the future — what retirement will look like, when you both plan to leave the workforce and how you will invest to live comfortably when you reach retirement age.

    According to an RBC poll, 77% of couples consider money a source of stress in their lives, and 62% say it causes them arguments.

    While money issues are a common theme in marital discord — and even a top predictor of divorce — according to a 2013 study — it is possible to get on the same page about financial goals, even if one partner is a saver and the other is a spender. On the Ramsey blog, Rachel Cruze discusses how couples can get aligned with their money goals.

    “When it comes to money fights in marriage, there’s often a surface issue and an underlying issue. And the only way to find the root cause of the argument is to stop and talk about it,” she wrote.

    Cruze also detailed that savers and spenders are equally valid in their decisions as long as they’re maintaining a reasonable approach to their budget. “Neither is right or wrong — they’re just different.”

    For Hayden and his wife, it’s important for them to discuss money as equals and understand each other’s perspective.

    Making money decisions as a couple

    When couples approach budgeting without alignment on goals and what they want the future to look like, one person often takes on the role of the ‘manager’ while the other is taking orders, rather than the budget being a joint project for the pair.

    Ramsey notes that getting aligned on money is not just about looking at daily and monthly spending, but seeing the big picture: a plan for your marriage that includes financial stability as one piece of a happy life.

    “You’ve been talking about ‘what’ way too much, but not ‘why’,” he told Hayden. “And you’ve got to work on that. Then she’s going to have to take an adult position in this relationship where we sacrifice together for the greater good of our overall family.”

    Ultimately, Ramsey advocated for much stricter budgeting for the couple, which may include a “beans and rice” diet until they can get rid of their debt. Ramsey also had some blunt advice on what to do about that Tesla.

    “You need to sell her car yesterday, it should have never been purchased,” said Ramsey, but his tough-love approach to Hayden’s troubles didn’t end there. “Don’t talk to me about baby showers when you’ve got debt up around your neck and you’ve got a one-year-old. And don’t talk to me about your Instagram life, I couldn’t give a crap less about your Instagram life.”

    “That’s me being mean, and forceful, because that’s what I see in your lives,” admitted Ramsey. “You’ve got to want a bright future more than you want a false present.”

    Sources

    1. RBC: Finances and feelings: Harsh economic realities taking a toll on relationships among Canadian couples – RBC poll (Dec 2024)

    2. CTV News: Fighting over money is a top predictor of divorce, study shows

    3. Ramsey: How to Talk to Your Spouse About Money by Rachel Cruze (April 24, 2025)

    This article provides information only and should not be construed as advice. It is provided without warranty of any kind.

  • Ohio homeowners say a horrific odor has been wreaking havoc on their lives for years as sewage just sits rancid underneath their homes — and officials keep passing the buck on fixing it

    Residents in a subdivision of the city of Mentor, Ohio have been dealing with a smelly problem — and it’s taken years to get it addressed.

    “I had my family over on Easter, we’re sitting on my back porch, we had to go inside,” Shane Bergoch shared with News 5 Cleveland. “It was so bad.”

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    Dennis Ryan, a long-time resident of the neighborhood, told News 5 Cleveland that he’s been dealing with the bad smell for the past four years, and his calls to the city have been routinely dismissed.

    When he initially reached out to the local sewer company, he felt that its inspection was cursory.

    “They came out for two minutes and they checked. They said, ‘oh, no, it’s flowing underneath the street. It’s fine,’” said Ryan.

    ‘It’s so bad, some days it’s like it’ll knock you over’

    Bergoch is a newcomer to the neighborhood and says the area’s rancid smell kicks in several times a week.

    “It’s disgusting,” he said. “Some days it’s worse than others. It’s so bad, some days it’s like it’ll knock you over, take your breath away.”

    It wasn’t long before Bergoch began contacting local authorities to deal with the issue. After calling the county, the city, the sewer district and even the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA), Bergoch says some officials told him they weren’t aware of the situation in Mentor. That’s when Bergoch decided to take matters into his own hands.

    “I started the petition only because when I started to call the county, they told me it’s not an issue. I’m the only person that’s ever called,” said Bergoch. “So, I knew, after having these conversations with all my neighbors, I was like, well, that’s not true.”

    Residents believe the problem lies in the old sewer infrastructure underneath their homes. There’s also a marsh behind the area and a nearby water treatment plant, but Bergoch and his neighbors don’t believe either of those are the main source of the odor.

    “They’ve built a number of new subdivisions around us that have tied to the main line. So I think it’s just overloaded,” Bergoch said of the local sewage system. “It’s not getting pumped through, it’s just gravity fed, so that sewage sits in these lines.”

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    Getting to the source of the problem

    When News 5 Cleveland reached out to the city, reporters were told “something was reported to us in that area about 5 or 6 years ago,” and that the city would investigate the issue further.

    Mentor representatives added that issues of this kind are usually investigated by the Lake County General Health District. County officials, on the other hand, reportedly said the smell was an issue for the EPA to handle.

    The Lake County Department of Utilities said in a statement shared with News 5 Cleveland that the issue is receiving “urgent attention” and that it is “committed to performing any system improvements required to control odors emanating from the public sanitary sewer system within this neighborhood."

    While Bergoch, Ryan and their neighbors wait for a resolution, there are lessons that other homeowners can learn from their struggle.

    How to deal with issues like the Mentor stench

    First, if you have a similar issue in your neighborhood, be sure to document everything, including dates, times and the duration of the disturbance. Discuss the issue with your neighbors and if they’re in favor of taking action, try to convince them to join you in calling the appropriate authorities to report the issue.

    Like the residents of Mentor, you can call a number of authorities, including your municipal and county governments. Local environmental protection agencies can also help you to report and potentially resolve the issue.

    Petitions are also an excellent way to show how the problem is affecting a number of people, and issues such as the Mentor stench may also be of interest to your local news station.

    Finally, if your neighborhood’s issue — whether it be sewage smell, pollution or another environmental concern — causes physical harm to you or your neighbors, you can consider suing your municipality or the proper authority for negligence.

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  • Irvine police arrest 5 believed to be linked to ‘transnational organized crime ring’ after security footage shows them posing as Amazon delivery drivers to rob Southern California homes

    Irvine police arrest 5 believed to be linked to ‘transnational organized crime ring’ after security footage shows them posing as Amazon delivery drivers to rob Southern California homes

    A residential break-in on Easter Sunday in Irvine, California, has led to the arrest of five people that police say are part of a transnational organized burglary crew.

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    Police say they have been able to link the members, who have ties to Colombia, to other burglaries throughout Southern California.

    Security camera footage released shows them posing as Amazon delivery and food delivery drivers and knocking or ringing the doorbell before entering. Police told KTLA 5 the burglars were trying to blend in to the communities they were targeting.

    Now the five suspects are charged with burglary, conspiracy to commit burglary, and narcotics possession.

    If you’re worried about thieves gaining access to your home by adopting these or other tactics, there are a few things you can do to protect your property.

    The operation

    On April 20, a resident in Irvine reported that his surveillance cameras showed multiple people unknown to him in his home while he was away. The people were dressed as Amazon delivery drivers. By the time the police arrived, the burglars had already left, taking with them designer purses, shoes and jewelry.

    However, an officer spotted a suspicious vehicle leaving the area and stopped it. The driver, Jhon Osorioarias, a 24-year-old Fontana resident, said he was delivering food to a customer, but he could not provide the address where he delivered it. Police found suspicious items in the vehicle, and he was arrested for being unlicensed.

    After an “exhaustive investigation” of Osorioarias, they determined he was part of an organized burglary crew and identified his associates as well.

    With the help of the department’s drone team, the investigators were able to coordinate a successful operation that culminated in the arrests of the five suspects in May.

    “The investigation is ongoing, and more charges could be added as detectives sort through the evidence,” the police said in the press release.

    According to KTLA 5, police said hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of stolen property has been recovered from the suspects, including cash, jewelry, designed handbags and four guns, and they are in the process of tracing the owners.

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    How to protect your home from break-ins

    The good news is data from the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) reveals reports of burglaries have fallen sharply since 2011.

    The agency says that residential properties account for most burglaries, and in 2019, the average dollar loss per burglary offense was $2,661.

    To protect yourself from this crime, you can take some simple precautions.

    A survey of victims in Charlotte revealed that most burglaries happen during the day, between noon and 4 pm. This is prime time for most individuals to be out of the home, whether they’re working or running errands. So even if you’re just taking a quick trip to the store, be sure to lock all your doors and windows, and enable your security system during these hours. Also be extra-aware of potential burglars posing as delivery drivers around your neighborhood and scouting homes to hit.

    Cameras and security systems are more accessible than ever, and can help to deter thieves who may try to enter your home. One study by the Rutgers University School of Criminal Justice (SCJ) in Newark found that “installed burglar alarm makes a dwelling less attractive to the would-be and active intruders and protects the home without displacing burglaries to nearby homes.”

    Clear signage, as provided by your security company, and a camera placed in a prominent location near your front door can be enough to scare away anyone attempting to enter your home.

    The Justice Department has found that renters are more likely to be the targets of theft than those who own their homes. In 2011, the rate of completed burglary was 18.3 per 1,000 households that owned the property and 32.7 per 1,000 households that rented.

    “If you’re a renter, you’re at high risk for a home break-in,” says Safewise. “Read your lease and talk to your landlord about any security concerns you have. Ask if you can upgrade the lock in your apartment, or add a compact all-in-one security system like the Abode Iota or Canary.”

    Finally, it’s critical to have either renters or homeowners insurance. In the case of a break-in, your landlord or property management company is not liable for any damages or items stolen.

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  • ‘That’s not going to happen’: Kevin O’Leary fires back at Trump’s call for retailers to eat the cost of tariffs — and he warns Americans will be sharing the pain as Walmart raises prices

    Kevin O’Leary seems to have changed his tune on President Trump’s tariffs.

    In a recent interview with NewsNation’s The Hill, the Shark Tank star expressed his doubts on whether retailers would be willing to absorb the rising costs of imported goods thanks to Trump’s tariff war.

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    “We’re at the beginning of a negotiation,” O’Leary said, predicting that retailers would lobby the government to help reduce the impact of tariffs on their bottom lines.

    O’Leary previously advocated for a bully approach to tariffs on China. During an appearance on the Laura Coates Live podcast in April 2025, O’Leary had this to say. “Let’s just level the playing field. The [Chinese] government cheats, steals, robs, and does not play by any rules. I don’t think 125% is enough — 400%!”

    Less than two months later, O’Leary appears to be singing a different tune when it comes to tariffs, telling The Hill that he expects both customers and retailers to share the costs of Trump’s trade war.

    “There’s going to be some distribution of the pain between increased prices, and retailers will take some of the hit, but it really depends what the hit is,” said O’Leary. “We don’t know. Is it 10%? 20%? 25%? What is it? Nobody knows.”

    Trump, meanwhile, has different views on the matter.

    In a recent post shared on his Truth Social platform, the president wrote, “Walmart should STOP trying to blame Tariffs as the reason for raising prices throughout the chain. Walmart made BILLIONS OF DOLLARS last year, far more than expected. Between Walmart and China they should, as is said, ‘EAT THE TARIFFS,’ and not charge valued customers ANYTHING. I’ll be watching, and so will your customers!!!”

    But O’Leary, a Canadian citizen, has pushed back on this. “This idea that the president says, ‘Listen, retailers, eat the tariffs.’ That’s not going to happen,” said O’Leary.

    Walmart’s tariff announcement

    Some retail experts believe Walmart’s intention to raise prices in response to tariffs will set the tone for how the retail industry as a whole will respond to the trade war.

    As of 2023, Walmart accounted for 7.3% of overall consumer spending in the U.S., and nearly 19% of food and beverage spending. It remains to be seen if the retailer’s hold on a major portion of American wallets will slip as consumers look for lower prices elsewhere.

    In a separate interview with The Hill in May, a Walmart spokesperson said, “We have always worked to keep our prices as low as possible and we won’t stop. We’ll keep prices as low as we can for as long as we can given the reality of small retail margins.”

    Walmart CEO Doug McMillion also said the company isn’t “able to absorb all the pressure” from the tariffs during an earnings call in the same week.

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    What the experts say

    Today.com recently published a list of retailers that, along with Walmart, have announced or are expected to announce price increases in response to the higher costs of importing goods. These include popular big box chains like Target and Best Buy, plus a long list of automakers and tech giants like Apple and Samsung.

    Matt Pavich, senior director of strategy and innovation at Revionics, shared his thoughts during an interview with Retail Dive. “When Walmart makes pricing moves, the rest of retail follows, to some degree, on a lot of products.”

    However, retail economists note that getting pricing right at this moment when consumers are extremely careful with their spending is a tough needle to thread. “No retailer wants to be the one that’s called out on social media as gouging the consumer,” Ali Furman, Consumer Products Industry Leader at PricewaterhouseCoopers, shared with Retail Dive.

    Speaking to RetailCustomerExperience.com, Rob Garf — SVP of strategy and insights at Cordial — said, "With 70% of U.S. adults anticipating higher prices and 43% already experiencing increases, we’re seeing significant pressure on both retailers and consumers. The recent 28% year-over-year decline in consumer sentiment reflects growing spending shifts, particularly among the Boomer and Gen X demographics.”

    NielsenIQ’s recent "North America Tariff Sentiment Study" echoes Garf’s concerns. With nearly 10,000 Canadians and Americans surveyed in March 2025, 61% of U.S. consumers and 86% of Canadians reported they expect tariffs to “negatively affect their country’s economy this year,” according to RetailCustomerExperience.com

    Protecting your wallet against uncertainty

    If, like the majority of consumers, you’re worried about the costs of tariffs taking a bite out of your budget, there are a few things you can do to cut costs and find some more wiggle room in your wallet.

    First off, dedicate a little more time to planning your grocery shopping each week. Searching for good deals in the flyers, planning to buy locally and seasonally, and buying items with coupons can help you trim your food budget. Having a good meal plan can also save you from impulse purchases at the grocery store, or from spending your money on last-minute takeout and delivery when dinner time rolls around.

    You can also look for ways to trim your budget by carefully tracking your spending each month. When you see how much you spend on entertainment, subscription services and shopping trips, you may be inclined to trim these expenses and look for cheaper ways to enjoy your leisure time.

    Finally, take a look at your quarterly or yearly expenses like insurance, travel and even veterinary bills. Try shopping around for better deals on your home or auto insurance, and look to spend your holidays closer to home this year, or opt for a last-minute deal to a popular destination.

    Finding creative ways to save can make budgeting less painful and keep the uncertainty of rising prices from cramping your lifestyle.

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  • ‘An absolute bloodbath’: Dave Ramsey told his viewers never to buy a home on more than a 15-year mortgage — and he was roasted on social media for it. But does Ramsey have a point?

    Dave Ramsey has upset his fanbase with financial advice that many are calling out of touch in the current economic climate.

    Last month, we covered Ramsey’s latest advice on mortgages, where he advised listeners on his popular show to never take out a mortgage of more than 15 years, as this will cost you thousands of dollars more in the long run.

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    However, users on X — as well as readers of a right-wing website called Not The Bee — are doing the math and showing just how difficult it is to get in on the housing market at all, let alone to be able to afford a home with a shorter mortgage term.

    The @FinancialPhysics X account posted a breakdown of how much homebuyers in the U.S. would have to make per year after taxes to afford the average home price in America — a whopping $190,000.

    The video further calculated the cost of a house in Mississippi, where the average home prices are the lowest in the country at $180,000, according to the figures in the video. Assuming you spend no more than a quarter of your take home pay on your mortgage, you’d still need to earn $95,000 per year to afford a 15-year mortgage in Mississippi.

    The caustic comments posted on X and elsewhere about Ramsey’s advice were described as “an absolute bloodbath.” Below, we’ll take a closer look at the financial realities of buying a home in America today, and how you can make the math work for you.

    Doing the math on American mortgages

    Checking up on the figures in the video, the math on mortgages more or less works out. According to Zillow, the current average home price in the U.S. is $367,711. Assuming a mortgage rate of 7.04% — the current national average — and a standard 20% down payment, your monthly mortgage payment would be $2,651 on a 15-year loan, according to Bankrate’s mortgage calculator. A down payment that’s smaller than 20%, or $73,542, would net out to monthly payments around $3000 per month.

    In terms of income, the figures for what makes a high-income individual vary widely by state, but across the board, an income of $335,891 per year puts you in the top 5% in this country. The @FinancialPhysics video also correctly reports the real median household income in the U.S. — $80,610 as of 2023, according to the Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis — which is well below the income levels for 15-year mortgages that we detailed above.

    In terms of the cheapest states to buy a house, West Virginia tops the list from Rocket Homes, with a median selling price of $208,968 in 2024.

    So while the video from @FinancialPhysics may not be perfectly accurate, it paints a fairly clear picture of the state of home buying in the U.S. today — a place where old-fashioned advice on finances may no longer be relevant.

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    Ramsey’s take on mortgages

    Ramsey warns his followers who want to get ahead with their finances that opting for a 30-year mortgage can see you flushing money down the drain. The longer your mortgage term, the more you pay in interest, which means it takes longer to pay down the principal of your loan.

    While Ramsey’s advice is perfectly sensible — a shorter loan means less spent in interest — it’s just not practical for many potential homebuyers who are already struggling with inflation and depressed wages.

    With the median price of a home having increased 220% in the last thirty years — from $130,000 in 1995 to $416,900 today — it’s no surprise that Ramsey fans feel gaslit by his advice and are making jokes about his baby boomer mentality.

    The social media uproar

    With @FinancialPhysics captioning their video with the phrase “Boomerism linked to dementia” — and others on X leaving comments ranging from “Yeah, I’ve just accepted I’m never owning a home” to “I was happier in my blissful ignorance” — commenters had plenty to say about the realities of affording a mortgage in the U.S. today.

    The person behind the @FinancialPhysics account further stoked the flames with comments that the new reality of homeownership has been destructive to birth rates and overall quality of life, and that many of America’s most affordable homes have been bought up by investors specifically to “destroy American birth rates.”

    However, some commenters came out in support of Ramsey, pointing out that first-time homebuyers are probably not aiming for the median-value homes in the market.

    “I feel that this data is being misrepresented by using average house prices rather than median house prices,” said one. “Came here to point this out and add that a typical first-time home buyer should not be buying a house that is anywhere near the average or median price,” said another.

    The verdict on 15-year mortgages

    According to Investopedia, a 15-year mortgage is a major advantage to those who can afford it, as it lowers the overall cost of the loan. But buyers who cannot comfortably afford the higher monthly payments risk defaulting on their loan.

    While the total interest you’d pay for a 15-year mortgage will likely be half of what you’d pay for a 30-year mortgage — since you’re borrowing the money for half as long — it’s critical to have a 360 degree view of the true cost of a 15-year mortgage. Not only do you have a higher monthly bill, but you should also consider your insurance, maintenance fund and any additional loan or homeownership fees as part of the true cost of your mortgage.

    However, a 15-year mortgage has the benefit of lower fees for the loan. Government sponsored lenders such as Fannie Mae often charge loan-level price adjustments, and according to Investopedia, these fees often apply only to 30-year mortgages. It’s also worth noting that these fees are usually for those with lower credit scores, or those who make a small down payment.

    Finally, future homeowners considering a 15-year mortgage should consider their potential earning capacity in the future. While you can save substantially with a shorter loan term, the higher monthly payment may prevent borrowers from building up savings for retirement or putting money away for a child’s college tuition.

    When considering the true cost of your mortgage, you should also calculate the potential value of investments in your 401(k), which are compounded by your employer contribution. You can also consider how much any potential investments in stocks and bonds would appreciate over the 15-year term.

    No matter how you choose to finance your home purchase, it can be well worth your time to speak to a financial advisor who can help you map out these future scenarios and make the most informed decision possible about your mortgage.

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  • I make $140K and just got an offer for a new job at $170K — but here’s the catch: I have to transition from remote to hybrid work. Is the extra cash worth commuting again?

    I make $140K and just got an offer for a new job at $170K — but here’s the catch: I have to transition from remote to hybrid work. Is the extra cash worth commuting again?

    For many remote workers, the flexibility offered by working at home can’t be beat.

    In a McKinsey survey from 2022, 21% of remote workers reported that getting a remote role was their primary motivation for seeking a new job. Furthermore, according to an independent survey of more than 12,000 respondents who work remotely, the ability to work from anywhere has increased their happiness by as much as 20%.

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    So what if you’re currently on the job hunt, and have received a nice offer, but now find out it will mean you need to work from the office for at least three days a week? Is it worth it to trade in your sweats for a rush-hour commute? We’ll break down the added costs of office-based work, plus the benefits that you might enjoy.

    The scenario

    Say you’re currently making $140K with a 10% performance bonus. Your new offer has a base salary of $170K with a 15% bonus. However, you’ll be leaving a fully-remote role for a mandatory hybrid working arrangement, with three days a week in-office.

    The extra salary could help you afford a down payment on your own home, which is your major financial goal.

    So what would the extra salary look like on your monthly paycheck? If you live in California, for example, your total income after taxes would be $114,921, not including deductions for health insurance or any contributions to retirement accounts. In contrast, your current take-home pay at your $140,000 salary is $97,119. So the difference is $17,802, or $1,483.50 per month. When you consider your health care and retirement savings costs, you can target about $1,000 extra per month in income — which isn’t bad, but might not be enough to get you meaningfully closer to your goal of homeownership.

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    Additional costs for your new role

    If you choose to transition back to working in-office, you’ll have to consider your transportation costs. As a remote worker, you may not have a car, or you may not use your car very often. With potentially long commutes ahead of you, you’ll need a reliable vehicle, a healthy gas budget, and some savings set aside in case of accidents or repairs. You may also need to consider whether your current auto insurance will be sufficient for your needs. If you work in the city, parking might also become a monthly expense you’ll need to factor in.

    Many office workers prefer the convenience of having their lunches or even dinners at restaurants. Even if you brown bag it two out of the three days you’re in the office, your food budget can balloon when you’re surrounded by options for meals on the go. It’s also true that you’ll feel more tempted to treat yourself to social drinks or dinners with colleagues after work, or other activities that can take a bite out of your entertainment budget each month.

    But there’s something to be said for the value of that informal off-the-clock socializing, especially if you’re hoping to climb the ranks at your new workplace.

    You just need to be prepared for these added costs because the temptation for lifestyle creep could be a real concern. When you feel like you’re earning more, regardless of what the numbers in your bank account say, you may be tempted to splurge on luxuries like extra vacations, a new car or even more frequent discretionary purchases like clothes shopping and dining out. These costs could quickly eat up your extra $1,000 per month, and even leave you with less money for saving than you had before.

    The bottom line

    While it may sound as if we’re advising you against taking a new role, the truth is that it’s almost always a good idea. Your role is likely to be additional good experience you can add to your resume and help you in the future in your career.

    If you’re feeling underutilized in your current role, or you’re not growing, a new role can break you out of your rut, and also make you more competitive in the job market. In today’s layoff-heavy climate, staying relevant with new skills and better titles is a must.

    You can also look at the role as an experiment — if you find that the commuting and lifestyle changes aren’t worth it after six months to a year in the role, you can hit the job market again and find something that suits you better, hopefully this time with even more skills to aid you in your search.

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  • I’m 29 years old and my fiance and I want to make an offer on our dream house — but he refuses to put my name on the deed even though he expects me to pay half the mortgage. What do I do?

    I’m 29 years old and my fiance and I want to make an offer on our dream house — but he refuses to put my name on the deed even though he expects me to pay half the mortgage. What do I do?

    Relationship patterns in the U.S. are changing. As of 2023, 9.1% of the population was cohabiting without being married, up from only 3.7% in 1996. With more unmarried couples opting to have children and buy homes together, those living in these types of partnerships should be aware that, while values have changed, the law in many cases has not kept up with the times.

    Consider this scenario: You’re 29 years old, planning to buy your dream home with your partner. You’ve been living together for several years, and have a child together. While they have been saving up for a down payment, you have been doing most of the childcare, and diligently paying off your student loans to reduce your overall debt load in the relationship. You’ve found a house you love, but then your partner drops the bombshell: They believe that since they’re the one putting the upfront payment on the house, only their name should be on the deed. They still expect you to split the mortgage 50/50. What should you do?

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    Property laws in the U.S.

    Your rights as part of an unmarried couple will vary depending on which state in the country you call home. While many states recognize common law marriage, the rules around property in these unions vary.

    For example, in states that recognize common law marriages to some extent, the fact that you have cohabited for several years and demonstrated the capacity and intent to marry by getting engaged would make you common law spouses. This would give you the right to make a legal claim on the property in the event of a break-up, or the death of your fiancé. You would also have the right to file for divorce.

    Even if you live in a state like California that does not recognize common law unions, the fact that you share a child, equally contribute to living expenses, and are engaged would give you a strong legal case to make a claim on the home even if your name was not on the deed. However, you should know that suing your former spouse could be a lengthy and expensive process in court.

    For most couples that share children and have been cohabiting for years, marriage is still the best way to protect each partner’s legal rights in the event of the relationship ending, and also in the event of the death of either party.

    If you are considering buying a house together or significantly contributing to mortgage payments and other living expenses, it’s a bad sign if your partner is looking for ways to block your claim to ownership of the property, especially if it is your primary or only residence. In the scenario outlined above, this is a major indicator that your partner is not financially trustworthy.

    Also, while the childcare you’ve provided isn’t paid work in the traditional sense, it does hold value, and this should be acknowledged in the partnership. While you hypothetically could have gone back to work to earn a traditional paycheck, you then might have had to find paid childcare.

    Advice for new couples

    For couples who intend to cohabitate or have not established a common law marriage but will be sharing the cost of a mortgage, it’s essential that both names appear on the deed to the home. If this is not possible, you can opt to sign a cohabitation agreement that outlines the division of your property if you choose to part.

    Before you enter into any major purchases with your partner, be clear on your rights. As an unmarried person, your partner’s finances and property remain theirs, even if they buy a home while you’re together, and you contribute significantly to the cost. And if you have any doubts about your partner’s intentions or the financial repercussions for you if the relationship ends, don’t contribute to the mortgage or down payment.

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    Financial abuse

    A partner who is trying to block you from exercising your legitimate claim to the home you share or plan to share may be showing early signs of abusive tendencies. Financial abuse is a control tactic where an abuser will intentionally manipulate or control a victim’s access to money, their financial autonomy, withhold financial information that affects the victim, or block them from accessing any financial advice, products or property that would give them freedom to leave the relationship. The National Network to End Domestic Violence says that financial abuse happens in 99% of domestic abuse cases.

    In the case of the couple who has cohabited for several years and share a child, one partner attempting to block the other from property rights that would normally be theirs in a marriage is definitely a flag. Regardless of the reasons, unmarried couples are best advised to have clear legal agreements about major joint property, and to maintain separate bank accounts so that neither partner will be left without an emergency fund if the relationship ends.

    Financial self-care

    Whether you’re married, common-law, or in a partnership, maintaining a separate emergency fund is an important step to safeguard yourself, especially if you’re a woman. Studies show that the gender pay gap persists, with white women earning 83% of what men earned in 2022, and the gap increasing for women of color. In the case of a stay-at-home mom, leaving the workforce to be a caregiver is a significant financial pitfall, costing women $150,000 in wages on average.

    Contributing three to six months of expenses to an emergency fund can help get you on your feet quickly if you need to leave your relationship for any reason. You can open a high yield savings account separate from any joint accounts you hold with your partner, and set a budget for monthly contributions.

    In the case of our example couple, it may be advisable to seek financial counselling to help outline their money goals in the relationship and future marriage. A couples therapist may also help to unravel the miscommunication and mismatched expectations for their future — financial or otherwise.

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  • ‘It looked like a legit business’: This Mississippi man is out nearly $100,000 after purchasing solar panels — only to find that they don’t work and now the company has seemingly vanished

    ‘It looked like a legit business’: This Mississippi man is out nearly $100,000 after purchasing solar panels — only to find that they don’t work and now the company has seemingly vanished

    Mississippi business owner Jim Dutton is feeling burned by Tren Solar, a Louisiana-based company that installed solar panels on his property, and Mosaic Solar, an affiliated company that loaned him $99,000 for the job.

    Now Dutton has 47 non-functional solar panels installed on top of his auto body shop, located on the same property as his home in Carriere, Mississippi. That’s because there are “multiple potential safety hazards” with the panels and wiring, according to David Blackledge of MIssissippi’s Cooperative Energy electrical company, who inspected his property.

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    That hasn’t stopped Mosaic Solar from continuing to send Dutton the bills for the $99,000 loan.

    Now Dutton is sharing his story with Fox 8, warning others about his experience with the two companies.

    Solar panel company seemed legitimate

    Dutton first learned of Tren Solar when they called him “out of the blue.” He was interested in the potential savings of producing solar energy on his own property and powering both his home and his auto body shop, where he restores vintage cars.

    He did some online research that led him to believe that Tren Solar was trustworthy.

    “It looked like a legit business. And one of their partners, I guess they call it on the website — Panasonic — and they rated them in 2023 the best installer in the region,” Dutton recalled.

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    He moved forward with the job and signed a loan with Mosaic.

    “They installed the panels within three days,” Dutton said. “I was like, ‘Wow, this is cool. They weren’t kidding, four to eight weeks.’ Then, it was radio silence.”

    After three months of Dutton’s constant calls to Tren Solar, an electrician finally showed up to wire the system to supply power to the auto body shop and home — without an approved plan from Cooperative Energy to do so.

    “These two jobs should not have been installed by Tren Solar, because they didn’t make it past the initial utility review stage,” the utility company’s Blackledge told Fox 8. “The installation method used has created multiple potential safety hazards.”

    Blackledge added that Tren Solar waited till after the panels were installed to reach out to Cooperative Energy for permission to do the installation. When Blackledge reached out to Tren Solar to follow up, he was never able to reach anyone.

    The disappearance of Tren Solar

    Fox 8 visited the Tren Solar business address, but were told Tren Solar had closed its office months before. The company’s co-founders did not return emails or calls.

    Fox 8 has since discovered multiple complaints about Tren Solar and Mosaic lodged with the Better Business Bureau.

    “All of the complaints have been (regarding) the lack of customer service communication that’s been happening,” said Michael Drummond, president of the Better Business Bureau (BBB) of Greater New Orleans.

    “We’ve reached out many times through our processes. We’ve been unable to get them to respond.”

    Now, Attorneys General in multiple states are suing Mosaic for deceptive trade practices.

    “A government action or a government warning is definitely a red flag,” Drummond said.

    How to protect yourself from shady businesses

    If you’re considering a major installation on your property, like solar panels:

    • Research regulations to familiarize yourself with building, fire and electrical codes and other rules designed to protect you and your home. That includes making sure you are lined up for inspections throughout the process.
    • Don’t hire the first contractor you find — especially if they reach out to you through a cold call or similar type of outreach marketing. Shop around.
    • Do your due diligence on the principal contractor you choose and their affiliates. Check with the Better Business Bureau, study online reviews and testimonials and don’t be afraid to ask for testimonials from your neighbors. If your contractor is legitimate, they’ll be happy to provide contacts.

    If you have concerns about the installation, make sure you record all communications with the company, including times of calls, any emails or texts you received, and all bills or invoices.

    If you believe you’ve been the victim of deceptive business practices, report the business to the Better Business Bureau or your State Attorney General’s Office. You can also file an online complaint with the Federal Trade Commission or reach out to a local Consumer Protection Office.

    If you’re attempting to recover money you spent on such an installation, you can try to send a notice of dispute to your credit card company to stop payment to the company.

    You can also try to get your insurance company working on your behalf. Some insurance policies can help cover losses or damage from faulty installations. Check with your provider for more information.

    Finally, you can take the company to small claims court or — if you’re dealing with a significant sum — hire a lawyer.

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  • Dave Ramsey once told a Ramsey Show caller it’s possible to withdraw at 8% in retirement — but Suze Orman has called even 4% ‘very dangerous’. Who’s right?

    Dave Ramsey once told a Ramsey Show caller it’s possible to withdraw at 8% in retirement — but Suze Orman has called even 4% ‘very dangerous’. Who’s right?

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    The 4% rule in retirement has been a widely accepted retirement standard for over 30 years.

    The rule states that you should draw 4% of your assets from your investments each year in retirement. This should, in theory, allow you to maintain a comfortable standard of living while continuing to let your investments appreciate in value.

    However, it seems this longstanding rule could be poised to fall.

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    A recently retired caller to The Ramsey Show asked host and finance personality Dave Ramsey if it would be safe to go up to a 5% withdrawal rate in order to pay for trips he and his wife wanted to take in early retirement.

    Ramsey has said he believes that retirees can earn up to a 12% annual return from mutual funds, and will therefore be safe to withdraw more than the standard 4% per year without jeopardizing their nest egg. He calls the standard rule “absolutely wrong” and “ridiculous.”

    But another finance celeb has a very different opinion.

    Suze Orman has called the classic 4% rule “very dangerous.”

    Orman, a fellow best-selling author and expert, also called for a tweak to the 4% rule in an interview with Moneywise — saying that retirees should only withdraw a maximum of 3% yearly if they are retiring in their 60s.

    Who’s right? Here’s what to consider.

    The importance of retirement accounts

    Ramsey’s advice is based on a number of suppositions that may not reflect the real financial status of the average retiree.

    Inflation will eat away at the value of your retirement savings, and it’s very possible that your retirement years could coincide with a period of higher inflation.

    That’s not to mention the stock market’s volatility. Many experts believe a consistent 12% return, like Ramsey has optimistically said mutual funds can deliver, may not be likely.

    Suze Orman’s advice, on the other hand, is more conservative. She advises retirees to withdraw as little as possible from their savings, which is a safer approach.

    Either expert would argue that the best way to make your money last in retirement is to start saving as early and as aggressively as you can.

    One of the best ways to save for retirement is with an IRA. But with the fluctuations of the market, you may be wondering if there are safer investment options available.

    For example, Opening a gold IRA with help from American Hartford Gold combines the tax advantages of an IRA with the inflation-resistant properties of gold.

    Gold has historically acted as a hedge against inflation, and many professional investors such as Ben Mallah and Peter Schiff tout it as a solid alternative investment to the stock market and way to diversify your IRA as the price of gold continues to rise.

    As one of the nation’s most reputable and trusted precious metal companies, American Hartford Gold is a source for IRAs and direct purchases of precious metals and coins that many retirees trust.

    Before you begin investing however, you need a plan. And while Ramsey and Orman make good points on withdrawal strategy, you may need help that’s more tailored to your personal situation. If you’re unsure of how to navigate planning for retirement on your own, calling a professional give you some peace of mind.

    Advisor.com simplifies the search process by connecting individuals with an exclusive network of fiduciary advisors, each dedicated to transparency and held to high ethical standards.

    All you have to do is answer a few simple questions regarding your finances and long-term goals, and Advisor.com will connect you with a vetted expert near you who is best suited for your needs. You can then set up a free, no-obligation consultation to see if they’re the right fit for you.

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    Boost your existing savings

    If you’re already in retirement, you may want to follow Ramsey’s advice on growing your existing savings with safe vehicles like mutual funds. However, many retirees have not considered the benefits of certificates of deposit, whose returns can now exceed 5%.

    Between 2008 and 2022, when certificate of deposit rates were practically zero, and their appeal to investors about the same, they fell out of favour. But since the Fed started aggressively raised interest rates to combat inflation, certificates of deposits (CDs) have become a hot topic once more. And even though rates are slowly coming back down, these accounts are still worth a look.

    With SavingsAccounts.com you can shop and compare top certificates of deposit rates from various banks nationwide.

    Their extensive database shows the most competitive rates, with daily rate updates and personalized recommendations based on your risk preferences and time horizon so you can find the right CD to meet your retirement savings goals.

    Parking your savings in these short-term growth funds will allow you to plan year-to-year and continue to grow your savings when you’re on a fixed income.

    You can check out Moneywise’s Best High Yield Savings Accounts of 2025 to find some savvy savings options that earn you more than the national average of 0.4% APY.

    Invest for passive income in retirement

    Dave Ramsey is a huge advocate for finding new passive income streams to pay down debt and build savings. While much of his advice is focused on finding a lucrative side hustle, for those in their golden years, a more relaxed approach may be easier to incorporate.

    One of the easiest ways to grow your savings and portfolio is through Acorns, an automated investing and saving platform that simplifies the process of setting aside extra funds.

    When you spend on anything — groceries, gas, or bills — Acorns automatically rounds up the price to the nearest dollar and deposits the difference into a smart investment portfolio for you, allowing you to grow your wealth without even thinking about it.

    You can also customize how you save.

    With an Acorns Silver plan, you get access to Acorns Later, a retirement investment account with a 1% IRA match on new contributions.

    You can also opt for Acorns Gold plan, which offers a 3% IRA match on new contributions and the ability to customize your portfolio by selecting your own stocks.

    Sign up now and for a limited time you’ll get a $20 bonus investment.

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  • ‘There ought to be consequences’: This Houston man is suing the state over nearby roadwork that has dragged on for 10 years, costing him customers and a business

    ‘There ought to be consequences’: This Houston man is suing the state over nearby roadwork that has dragged on for 10 years, costing him customers and a business

    Road construction is always disruptive. But for Houston businessman Kent Edwards, years-long roadwork has cost him so much that he’s suing the Texas Department of Transportation (TxDOT).

    “This is a long-term saga going back to 2015 for me,” Edwards told Moneywise.

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    Edwards has run Motorcars Limited, his restoration shop for luxury and classic cars, on Hempstead Road since the mid ’80s. As he shared with KHOU, it used to be full of cars. Now it’s nearly empty. It’s hard for customers to drive in.

    That’s because for 10 years, Hempstead Road has been under construction with repeated roadwork delays and no end date in sight. Edwards has not only lost customers but had to sell a commercial property across the street when all his tenants moved out due to the disruption.

    As for his auto body shop, “I can’t sell it. I can’t rent it. I can’t do anything with it.”

    Now he’s filed an “inverse condemnation” lawsuit against TxDOT seeking compensation for lost profits and business damages.

    Meanwhile, the road construction is also costing the state a lot of money. TxDOT has to pay for ongoing delays with tax dollars. What is TxDOT doing to recover the cost of delays?

    State charges, then refunds, road contractors for cost of delays

    KHOU reported that when a roadwork project is past due, the state is within its right to charge the contractor damages. In the case of the roadwork outside Edwards’ business, those damages amount to $1.7 million.

    But as the news outlet discovered, as soon as TxDOT charges contractors for these damages, it regularly reverses course and waives the costs, crediting money back to the same contractors.

    In the past three years, TxDOT charged roadwork contractors $88 million in damages, but credited them back $39 million. In some cases, the credits were almost equal to the damages, essentially negating the cost to contractors.

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    “There ought to be consequences,” said Adrian Shelley of the government watchdog group Public Citizen. “If there’s no consequences for delays, they’re going to keep happening, right? It’s that simple."

    TxDOT Executive Director Marc Williams told KHOU that contractors are not being let off the hook, but that contractors dispute the damages, claiming legitimate reasons for delays, like bad weather.

    “We work very hard to hold those contractors accountable,” he said. “We want the projects … to be done right, to be done on time, but we also are fair.”

    What can small business owners do?

    But Edwards doesn’t think TxDOT is being fair to business owners.

    “I don’t think it’s acceptable at all,” he said.

    In other parts of Texas, city councils offer financial assistance to business owners affected by construction.

    San Antonio City Council has earmarked $1.4 million for businesses in construction zones to help them with advertising and operating costs — during and after construction.

    For small businesses across the U.S., the Small Business Anti-Displacement Network offers tools and resources to help owners stay afloat, including advice on filing for tax credits and incentives and information on commercial tenant protections.

    Small business owners can also reach out to their local community organizations and business development councils for support and to organize cross-promotional activities to keep the community aware that the business is open while construction continues.

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